If you only shine light on your flaws, all your perfects will dim.
There are three questions every woman should be able to answer yes before they commit to a man. If you answer no to any of the three questions, run like hell. Does he treat you with respect at all times? If he is the exact same person twenty years from now that he is today,... Continue Reading →
Is it weird that I start to understand myself better as I get older? I think I am. Maybe its the circumstances that I've faced this godforsaken year. Fun fact: I found my first white hair, or rather my hairstylist casually informed me I have white hair during my spontaneous trip to the salon. Holy... Continue Reading →
People on the outside of situations like this often wonder why the woman goes back to the abuser. I thought it was stupid. I thought it was because they were weak. I thought these things about my own mother more than once. But sometimes the reason women go back is simply because they are in... Continue Reading →
We just sell different parts of ourselves. Some sell their souls. Nothing wrong with that. Some beg to differ. I beg to differ. Been thinking about how to put this encounter across in the best way I can but there isn't a best way to explain this. Only the brutal truth. 2020, the year of... Continue Reading →
It's been a while since I fell. I could vaguely remember me falling down and scraping my knee as I ran towards my grandfather who was waiting for me after school with his bicycle. We can easily slap on a plaster and call it a day. Yes, it would be painful for the next few... Continue Reading →
The environment that a child is brought up will affect his communication skills if he is not given the chance to communicate freely in the presence of an authoritative figure. For a child that has been oppressed to an authoritative figure since young, he would not have the necessary communication skills to interact with his... Continue Reading →
Showing vulnerability is a form of strength. Just yesterday, this topic came up during our conversation and I thought its quite a meaningful topic to talk about. The question was, do you think that showing vulnerability in front of others is a form of strength or weakness? Maybe it is more prevalent in men or... Continue Reading →
I've always wondered why do Singaporeans keep voting for the ruling party and yet every single time there is a price hike, transport price hike etc, they will just keep complaining about it. They should have expected this right? Perhaps we are working adults that is why we don't see the people that we have... Continue Reading →
"Remember to come home early, we have to take a family photo for Elijah's military graduation tonight!", Father chirped. Elijah finally graduated from his military school and he had to take a family portrait to submit to his superiors. As the evening approached and everyone reached home, it was time to take the photograph. Elijah... Continue Reading →
The Platform is one of the most thought-provoking films I've watched to date. For real. The literature embedded in this film is so good that it left me obsessed with each and every detail of the film. Well, I have some takeaways and theories which I'm DYING to talk about desperately. Nerdy fact: I watched... Continue Reading →
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