If you only shine light on your flaws, all your perfects will dim.
Been thinking quite a bit these few days, both good and bad thoughts. I try to have more good ones but they kind of tend to be slightly spiteful which is understandable I suppose. Things like, "What if my brother spends a huge chunk of his life in prison and mother passes away in the... Continue Reading →
Turned 27 this year and I took the day off to...sleep. As much as it's really boring, I actually enjoyed it. I mean well, I truly love sleeping so it was really nice. If I had to sum up what I've learnt so far in life, these would be it: You don't need that many... Continue Reading →
Someone asked me this question. Do I want to settle down? Or play? "I think you want to settle down" Honestly, I think I don't. I like being free. Perhaps I'm just done with relationships in general. I've literally spent 8 years of my life in long term committed relationships. So tell me what I... Continue Reading →
Where do you get your confidence from? Google says it’s from within. What about from the people around you? I think it helps too. Maybe if you were raised with parents who empower you, you'd have a decent level of confidence. But what if you only have people who tear you down? Naturally, you'd be... Continue Reading →
How do you tell a child that her parents are not happy being together? Do you avoid the topic altogether in hopes that one day when they grow up they would eventually find out? Or do you just hand it to the the brutal truth as it is? You do the latter. It’s difficult but... Continue Reading →
When I was a child, my parents asked me and my siblings very interesting questions. What kind of car do you want to drive? What kind of house do you want to live in? I can’t remember what I said but I’ve come to realise that it doesn’t really matter tbh. Maybe for someone with... Continue Reading →
Do you realize people always have some sort of opinion for...everything? Even when it's absolutely unsolicited. Uncalled for. They'd die if they don't share their opinions. How amusing. It's almost as though they have a manual on how to live life and they are compelled to convince you that that is how you should live... Continue Reading →
Do you belive in monogamy? I did a poll, and the two camps are not that much different which was rather interesting. Unsurprisingly, most females believe in monogamy whereas most of the male counterparts opted for the latter. Girls fall harder in love perhaps? Unsurprisingly so. I think I should go and look at the... Continue Reading →
Are you ready for PART II of my EXCITING dating life? Let's gooooooo. Mr F (Leo, Dragon) Nothing to spice up the start of a great convo than incest. I didn't meet F irl but we did have an unforgettable albeit traumatic phone call. Being quite an exibitionist himself, he was extremely enthusiastic to share... Continue Reading →
Lately, I attended a close friend's wedding, and I don't think I liked it at all. Maybe just the food; it was a buffet so I could eat all I want. In fact, it was a rather small wedding for close family and friends, but it was still quite an interesting spectacle. I was literally... Continue Reading →
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